Sunday, 25 September 2011

RE-GAIN & RE-START, your LIFE

I could not get, what  I wanted. I have lost every thing then what can I do now, my time has been passed, I had every thing but now, I have nothing,it is always heard and told.
If you lost every thing ,does not mean, you have lost your life, there is more chances, if you regain and recharge yourself.It is in your hands.Do not need to disappointed.

Whenever something went wrong or something goes wrong, does not matter. Matter is this, how we take and how we manage our-self in positive and negative situation.If we accepted, that we have lost our energy and other chances in our rest life then we will be starting to lose our identity and this will decrease our internal power, and gradually we will be losing our fighting capacity against opposite condition. 

What do you do, when you are working on the computer ? when it does not work or suddenly light goes or in the case of deleting of you important data or it does not start. Obviously, you push restart button again by again, whenever it does not work properly and what does your computer do,It indicate,restore your data, some exiting file can be destroy,computer is not properly shut down,restore your important data before shutting down the computer.Do you shut down the computer without saving the important data ? do you ignore ? Of course not, then why do we not store our data e.g.energy,power,fighting-capacity,determination,desire,hope,learning etc.


Remember , we can control our computer but no one can control us, we have to control our self . we have to restore our data of life our-self.The first step to getting the thing ,we want of life is this - we should decide , in any condition, we will save our small-small major data,and little thing in life,and one day, we will look back and realize, they were the big thing.If you have lost major part of your life, do not worry , regain and restart your-self and give a meaning to your balance life.


Mail id - sarrafsanjay@ymail.com 


Mumbai, India


Saturday, 24 September 2011

Kaizen - Method

Plan ,what do you want ?

Quality is a part of the process and not the end product.


Kaizen is a philosophy which will ensure guaranteed success for activity.


Everyone has different - different plan for success. Someone want to start a new business, someone plan for a big company, someone plan to join a company.Someone plans for MBA,Engineer,Dr.,Actor etc.
Put all effort to plan.



Success demands a process.There are many stage between plan and success.Good planning is not a final stage of success.



We have to apply several method, and we try to contemplate small small thing,e.g.plan,product,office,design,publicity,client-data,finance,our partner,employer,collage etc.

what should we do ?

1.vision should we clear.
2.Plan should be according to vision.
3.How will we work?
4.To whom will we work?
5.Time - management.
6.Finance.
7.How to apply.
8.Product Quality.
9.Reasonable and rational expectation.
Put all major elements together 



If we want to success in any field then every elements should be 100% perfect.Without apply this process, we can not get a grand success.I give you a little example, There are many parts in a Pen, e.g. Ink,lid,body,cover,color,grip,flow,nickle,presentation etc. If all part is not perfect ,then there are least chances for selling the pen in huge quantity.To run a company, we have to very careful because company does not work only for profit, although they are responsible to the society, government,  country,worker,labours, etc.

Planning,marketing,office, dedicated employee,administration,product design,publicity design,finance, customer services,quality maintaining,day by day improvisation, customer satisfaction etc are the major part of any successful company or any brand.Without this we can not run a company successfully.
Small small steps become BIG.


It is very clear that without proper planning, we can not insure success .Each and every part of the business, life, study should be hundred percent  perfect.When all things will come together then we can get a grand success in any field. The process is of  formost important of any thing. Apply Kaizen - Mathod and change your life.

Friday, 23 September 2011

DIL Ka DOCTOR...

One day One girl called me. Hello sir, I want to see you. Why ? I ask her. She replied , I am hopeless, I am very sad, my heart is weeping, my heart is colorless, I want to repair my heart, I know, you have some medicine and  some repairing instrument . Just, meet me, I will tale you that what is happening with my heart.You have written a lot about heart and I know you can fill color in my life.

She met me.I checked her heart.Her heart was broken and there were no color in her heart,e.g.emotion,love,mercy,happiness,sadness etc. When I diagnosed ,I came to know that it was completely broken and It was without colors.I asked did you love anyone ? She replied, yes Dr.I have loved many guy, but It was not true love. Many guy,why ? I can not stay with one Dr.,I said, Huuu.. your heart is distributed in many guy so you have lost your original color.It not possible in this stage.your heart is in divided in several parts. I cant help you.
She started crying , Please do something Dr.,otherwise I will not go to home.No one is with me,all has gone. I thought ,if I did not give color in her heart then She will not go. In fact, I was in fear that, I could not be a victim like other guy.I told her OK, I try but you will have to promise me ,when your heart will be repair then you will not throw it here and there. She agreed and I had to start repairing of her colorless heart. 


First, I started joining her heart, which were in small - small pieces.I gave some bandage and tried to fix but they were not ready to join.After long time, I could join the pieces.I filled  some color of emotion, and love.she started recovering and her heart started coming in original shape.I was little happy ,at least, I could repair someone heart. 

I gave her all color and open her heart's lock, which had lost her colors. Gradually , she came in shape , she started feeling all colors of life, I checked, It was working properly, I said, never throw your heart here and there . Love only one,not to many.She was so happy ,she hug me tightly and kiss me,she ThanXed me.I started feeling something to her.I scared , immediately I pulled my self and said you are OK now. You can go.Again she gave me a kiss and happily she went.
                                         

Rape and Rapist ?

What is Rape and who is rapist according to law.Let's know,I want to share my view about this. Firstly, we understand meaning of rape by law.Section 375 defines rape,--A man is said to commit "rape" who, except in the case hereinafter excepted , has sexual intercourse with a woman under circumstances falling under any of the six following descriptions:-

First    -- Against her will.

second   -- Without her consent.

Thirdly  -- With her consent, when her consent has been obtained
            by putting her or any person in whom she is
            interested in fear of death or of hurt.

Fourthly -- with her consent, when the man knows that he is not
           her husband, and that her consent is given because she
            believes that he is another man to whom she is or 
            believes herself to be lawfully married.

Fifthly  -- With her consent, when ,at the time of giving such 
            consent, by reason of unsoundness of mind or 
            intoxication or the administration by him personally 
            or through another of any stupefying or unwholesome 
            substance, she is unable to understand the nature and
            consequences of that to which she gives consent.

Sixthly  -- with or without her consent, when she is under
            sixteen years of age.

Explanation -- Penetration is sufficient to constitute the sexual intercourse necessary to the offence of rape.

Exception   -- Sexual intercourse by a man with his own wife, the wife not being under fifteen years of age, is not rape.


My view :--
The word "rape" ,which is derived from the latin term rapio, means "to seize". Thus rape literally means a forcible seizure. It signifies in common terminology, " as the ravishment of a woman without her consent , by force,fear, or fraud" or  the carnal knowledge of a woman by force against her will.
Section 375 of Indian Panel Code protect woman and give justice and punishes the offenders.
But this section is being misutilized by some inferior women.some time some woman try to registered a rape case intensely even they are not raped.what can be motive behind this? Some time for harassment,black mailing,revenge,money or by fear,by force.

Sometime woman registered a rape case against her boy friend,boss,relative and other unknown person. Why rape allegation had to register against lover or a man ,when they were in love and in physical relationship since long time ? Why woman comes after many months,or after years, against her lover,friends,relatives or employer ? It can not be planned ? It can not for revenge?It can not be for money ?can not be in fear? It can not be that she would have been forced for registered a rape case?

It may be also possible that woman can make a plan to trap a man e.g.meet,love,sex,demand or fulfill her dream, but when she could not achieve her motto, then she started black mailing to man or any one.It can be also possible that  woman can starts showing her love to whom , who are in her target, and can collect all evidence for register a case knowing that this evidence can be utilize against a man if he does not fulfill her demands.This motto is not possible ? There are many example that men would have been targeted.

Sometime, some women register a case , ( may be fabricated)and sometime,they withdraw registered case, why ?(any secret understanding), Accuse  does not want that a rape case should be registered against him  so he becomes ready to compromise and fulfill all demands. Fabricated women want only this and they can plan intensely to trap anyone and when they get success in their plan then they start harassment, blackmail, threating that if you will not fulfill my demands , I will registered a rape case against you.I have enough evidence against you.
This section protects women and gives justice , if any one make physical relation with her against her will or by force,by fear.But this law should be not utilize against any innocent person as a weapon for make money.If crime is done then criminal should be punished,but if any allegation seems that it is fabricated then complainant should be punished not only for false allegation,although for mentally torture, harassment and lose of reputation.

Many people take disadvantage of our judicial system. Judgement is given by court, by trial,evidence and witness.However, we manipulated and tried to register a false case with fabricated evidence then during the trial in the court, it can be clear and we will be punished, we should remember it.So we should do all act according to law and we should believe in our judicial system, and we should not destroy anyone life for fulfill of our evil desire.