Sunday 23 October 2011

Stop Playing with Emotion.

Many boys and girls play a love game with each other. Someone are serious and someone makes relation only for fun and time pass or mentally and physical need. Who play each other this artical is not for them although it is for whom who are serious in their relationship. If you love someone then  never ditch each other. Mostly people show their-self that they are very honest in their relationship but in fact, they have been ditching to their partner .

love attachment is very strong. Whenever we love then we become salve of our heart and we always think about our love. We miss them and we do not want to share  our lover.
Girls are more sentimental, so boys take advantage. I am not saying that all boys and girls are equal . Some time boys ditch and some time girls ditch.If you are involve with each other knowing that there is nothing serious then you both are free to live your life, there is no liabilities no moral responsibilities, whenever they need they meet , there is no emotional attachment. If both are agree then no harm.

If we love and we are emotionally attach then we should not ditch each other. we should loyal with each other. We should not play with others emotion.Whenever we are in love then we can not live without each other , we feel good, when we meet, we love, we talk , we go out here and there and we miss each other. Always we seek reason to meet. always we think about each other. 

whenever we are in love we cannot live without seeing , talking even we fight with the whole world. We leave all thing, e.g. relation, career, money , friends etc., for get our love ones. We quarrel, we fight, we sacrifice for  each other , but whenever we come to know that our beloved are involved in some where else then this is esteem point of our love-life. Whenever our heart is broken then a single minute is very painful, Its feel that we have lose every thing , we leave the hope , we start weeping, we want to finish our life, sometime we get furious, sometime we leave our self on the the present condition, some time we revenge .

I want to say to everyone , if someone ,love you and you are loved by someone don't ditch each other.It is very- very painful. After ditching, we die every minute. We lose interest in all thing . Life become like hell. life becomes colorless. Sometime we frustrate and we try to die. our heart easily does not ready to except that we have lose our love ones, we fight with our self but it takes very very long time to recover, that feeling can not be explained in the words. Just we can feel it , but we cannot express it. 

So , Never play with others emotion. Never ditch who loves you.Never utilize others emotion. If you have broken your lover heart or your lover have broken your heart , whenever you were in love then only you can feel that what is mental agony ? So, Please, Please, Please Love them who loves you purely and with open heart and leaved all the thing to get you.Be honest who are really honest with you.Don't leave them alone for dying  minute by minute.


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Avoid False Commitment


Sometime , for avoid some awkward situation we commit knowing that we will not be fulling that, although we commit and we fall in trouble and other person also come in trouble due our failure. 



I accept that we have to do this , there are various reason e.g. sometime we think on time we will complete, sometime avoid something, sometime in exception that I have long time period and we can do, sometime we commit intentionally thinking that We will face , what will be happen, sometime situation does not favor us etc.There are several - several reasons for different - different people. some people never give false commitment, in spite of any reason but they fulfill their commitment on time but there are some people who are habitual to break their commitment, these type of people do not accept their fault even they start arguments and give many reason for not full filling their commitments. 

Sometime , I could not complete my commitment and face a lot of problems.  I expected that I am able to fulfill any commitment on or before time, but unfortunately, I could not fulfill and I lost not only money even my respect also.
I am sharing my view to all that never do false promises. This habit will fall you in  a trouble, again by again, and you will lose your faith in the people.My experience says that we should avoid false commitments.

I came to know after a long time after loosing so many thing due to miscommitment, do not give commitments. If you are giving promises depending on others , it is dangerous for your relationship.So depending on others never - never commit others.
We have to do hard efforts to gain faith and respect , and it takes time but by small mistake, we can lose our faith.Remember , our  respect and faith are like a bullet who never back after firing.