Friday, 21 October 2011

Stop : Let Me COMPLETE, First

There are so many people ,whenever they start speaking, do not stop. Everyone has to face this problems. Whenever you are  in discussion then some people start their views and they do not listen to others, what someone want to say.What are other's views? They always interrupt and cut your point and start speaking,even after ignoring them, this type of people always create a problems for others because always they talk about himself and they do not give a chance to others to complete their statement.They are called interrupter.

We have to face these type of people in every where e.g.in meeting,discussion,tour,traveling etc. If you met this type of person who start their views without completing your view and if they do not stop after requesting then told them strictly : stop, let me complete. If you thought that they will feel bad then how many time will you tolerate them ? In stead of tolerance, why do you not say directly to them, who are an irritating person and even they do not ready to listen to you.

What you are ? If you are an interrupter , if you are habitual to disturbing to other, then give up now this disturbing attitude ,otherwise you will be ignored, and no body will take you seriously , although they will try to avoid you.Therefore,give chance to other to complete their views, do not start your view without completing their view.If you did not understand and it will be continuing then other person will be force to say you : STOP, Let me Complete, First.Why do you want to listen this ? 

Why do you not give up your interrupting nature ? Contemplate yourself,If you found that you have been doing this since long time then you should understand that whenever someone were speaking  then he would be in motion and that time you break their  continuity by  interrupting him,it is very bad habit, very very disturbing. Stop  yourself now otherwise you will be stopped.


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Thursday, 20 October 2011

DO NOT share, PROBLEMs to Everyone

Everyone have  a lot of friends, but every friend can be best it is not necessarily.In spite of many friends, we can not say that all friends will come to help whenever we need them.Whenever we fall in problems in our life, then we try to find right person ,who could help us. We maintain friendship with many people but we do not share our personal thing to all. 

Why some friends become most important in our life , because whenever we need them , then we find them with us. Some people are act like a best friend but actually they do not. Whenever we fall in troubles then we share our problems and try to find some helping hands among the friends, sometime we get and some time we do not get. 

some friends come out to help us and somebody ignore us. some friends, in stead of helping us they start back biting and they laugh on our condition , although they act like a good well wisher, I believe that you all be agree on this point.I want to say that whenever we fall in trouble and need helping hands that time we should carefully choose best friend among many friends.

Who is best friend ? Best friend is that ,who does not only help although who feel pain for you and always give you morally and some time financially help as you need, and does not make your position awkward in front of others even who does not explains your problems to others in any circumstances.If you are not agree with me and do you think that you have very good friends and they can do any thing then try and examine them, your illusion will break.

We need friends in our life for work, for love, for talk, for relation etc.Keep friends but share your personal thing only with them who will never ditch you, who will stand with you like a wall in troubles, who will protect you , who will feel your pain, who will not start back biting after helping you, although who will  not leave you alone because of afraid that he can also falls in problems due to helping you. If any friend does not come forward to helping you ,although they leave you alone for crying ,whenever you are in great need then what is meaning to keep so many friends in your list.

We need very few friend in stead of many, who always stands with us in any condition and whenever we need them, we  found them close to us.Choose few friends among many friends , contemplate before choosing your closest friend before sharing yourself.Who will be caring about you , who will purely hug you and assure that your problem is his problem. your pain is his pain .He will never leave you alone whenever you need him.

Do not share your problems with anyone assuming that he will help you.Firstly , be confident,examine him,provide a chance to prove him, whenever you will be 100% sure then share your personal thing not before examine him, otherwise you will be regretting on yourself. 



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Monday, 17 October 2011

To Gain Something: Do Not Loss Everything


Some people are intentionally wrong. They are habitually offender. Some company plans how to cheat by fabricated work. I know some company, which they are planning to cheat people on large scale.They established a large office, appointed many staff and started publishing advertising in leading News papers.

 A lot of company every where in India, plan to cheat people. I explain you exactly what they do. Firstly they take a furnished office on rent, then appoint local hard laborer unemployment boys and girls,some marketing boys with bike, some influenced people of local area and pay them higher incentive, they do advertisement in local news paper.They speak sweetly,any how they try to convince you.They throw different different offer to trap you.

In the beginning they pay according to their commitment,and gradually they gain trust the people.Whenever people started believing them then they try to take maximum investment in their company, and when they achieved their target , they vanish forever with people's hard money.


After that their employee is done harassed by their investor, some time they physically hurt them. If you are watching like a modes operendi like this, inform the police, and never fall in fishing other wise in stead of gaining something you will lose everything.First secure that your money will be safe , may be due to greediness you can lose your all earned money.  

Friday, 14 October 2011

At Right Time, At Least Not Yet..

I am asked by everyone even being asked everyday that , what is your planning and what do you want to do ? I shared my view and achieved my some goal.Now, I am working on a large scale project, After knowing this again all are asking about what is the NEXT ?

I Say that I am working on some mega project and it is in its initial stage so I can not tell you any thing about my future planning. They are insisting me to disclose my plans. I hearty request them that I need more time to complete my project report. This is not right time, Please wait for more two months. Whenever my feasibility report will be prepare , I will back to you and I will announce my projects. Therefore, Please leave me alone for two months. I really sorry to say to my company' MD and my all clients that do not bother or disturb me by calling again by again. If you all disturb me then I could not complete my works and company and clients will not get my best. 

If you are a creative person and you are working on creative work and you are being disturb and you want freedom to complete your work then no need to shame, tell them , please leave me alone.I told them who love me and I love them. you can also tell them just because I am busy does not mean I do not love you.I love you, I love my family, I love my work, I love my company, and what am I doing its not only for me even its for all.So wait, I will explain you all thing at right time. At Least Not Yet.