Forgive and Forget , If you LOVE....

No one is in this world, who did not mistake. every one does mistake. Some time intentionally, some time by mistake. We are full with emotion. We know, No emotion- No life.

we fight ,we love, we angry, we persuade , we quarrel,we happy , we sad ,etc..It is part of life.

If we love, we quarrel also on small- small thing.Sometime it becomes big and we fight, we get separate from each other. Some time our fight converts in a battle, and we have to break our relationship, and we start a new journey , we try to find love and emotion in others. Some time we get, some time we do not get, or some time we decide that we will stay alone. 

Mostly,After separation, we do not try to patch up,we try to forget all memories e.g. ,love,spending time, physical relationship,emotion etc.

Did you think ,when you leave your partner for his/her faults. I ask you one thing, did you never mistake ? OK!your partner have done great mistake, so they should be punished,but you ever thought that directly or indirectly you are also punished.we try to find mistake in her /his.If there is any mistake by any one,it means, mistake has been done,and it will never back.some time you do mistake, some tome other mistakes.after fault was found , it is simple to separate.  Instead of that,can we not start a new life ?can we never forgive ? If some one has done mistake, and you love each other then forgive and forget.If you forgive after a mistake then your relation can more strong,more pure.

I say , If you are separated due to any reason.Forgive each other.forgiveness is not something we do for others, we do it for our selves-to get well and move forward. If you done any mistake, come forward and accept, and some one accepts mistake then he/she should be forgiven.

If you both are staying separate , give a chance to each other.Start your love life again with more emotion. Give up ego,do not rigid, if other does not come, you go, and persuade, If both have loved each other, believe in yourself, come or go and hug and say , forgive me, I love you, I will be loving you. I can not live without you.If you never try, Try today, try now.

"Charo Khane CHIT kar DUNGA"

Small age, my web designer and PRO, and MBA in marketing, Mr.D.S.Ojha, He is intelligent and understand about e-marketing and wed designing very well. 

One day he told me, Sir, you should start your blog,so people will came to know about your views, and publicly you can share to all.

I started writing.

After some days, I told him , you should also start writing on blog. He replied, I can not write. I am master of my field. You can send me any where to debate,explain and presentation with any one regarding computer , web-site and e-marketing, Howlong, he would have been working in this field,does not Matter,"SABKO CHARE KHANE CHIT KAR DUNGA". 

PRIVACY, should not be disturbed

In our daily life, We disturb and we are disturbed. We should understand that when we should disturb and when we should not disturb. There are so many people, who do not understand or they do not want to understand. Some people disturb someone but they do not want their-self   should be disturbed.We should remember that every one has his personal life . Everyone are free to live their life according to their wish.

There are so many type of privacy in our life e.g. work privacy,family ,love life, business,friendship,etc.

We should not disturb others  e.g., when someone is doing work, someone is in meeting, talking on phone,working on computer,going out,writing,on date with girl friend,secret journey,mental work,willing alone, etc.We should understand about importance of privacy of others life.Just think, some time we do not want to be disturbed as well as some time others also could be want that they should not be disturbed.

All people has different different understanding.Some people does not understand at all. Whenever you tell  them, they can reply you - what happen!!! if I am talking to you...when you are writing, what happen!!! do your work..you are writing then what is the problem in talking. What happen!!! if I called you when you are in the meeting..just pick the phone...reply and carry on.What happen!!! If I want to come with you, I will not disturb you ,I will silent, I will wait out side. 

What happen!!! if you are with your family,with your computer, with your wife, with your girl friend,you are alone. If someone reply like this and do not ready to understand that exactly  what do you want to say then do not try to explain them, better, tell him strictly. 
   

But remember, always you can not say, "Do Not Disturb".If your family or important members e.g. wife, girl friend, your boss want to know about something then you are bound to explain. you can not say, Do not Disturb, it is my personal life, because they have right to know about you.

We should give importance privacy of others life.We should try to understand that when we should call , when we should talk ,when we should go with someone, when we should not disturb to others,when we should not ask about other's private things.

Try to  Understand, it is not possible that someone will provide you a chart, explaining that this time, I do not want to be disturb.Although, we have to understand our-self, and we should understand also. If we could not understand, then others will bound to say >>>>>>>>......................>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^


Mumbai,India